To Submit or Not to Submit ?

What does it mean to be submissive? A lot of woman think it is being weak or doing whatever it is a man wants you to do. They think it means being a yes ma’am. They think that being submissive you can’t be an individual. When in all reality that is not the case at all.

My husband and I have been together for 13 years and I’m just learning how to be submissive. I think that at some point you have to put your pride aside and let a man lead. Of course I am talking about being submissive in the bedroom! Throughout our relationship we’d always I guess took turns taking charge. Me more so than him, because that’s what I like to do. However, it is nothing like being in the bedroom and doing exactly what your man tells you to do!

Now don’t get me wrong I’m not saying that this can happen with just anyone. You have to be completely comfortable with your partner. You have to trust your partner and your partner has to know exactly how to please you. Your partner has to know what works and what doesn’t work. Safe words may be a good thing as well if you getting real freaky! (Still trying to ease my husband into that!) When all of the above is established you are ready to go.

Being submissive does not just happen overnight. Especially if your partner does not know your body. Part of the reason why a woman can never submit in the bedroom is because her partner doesn’t know what it takes to get her there, but she does. So she takes charge and does what she needs to do to make sure that the loving is a 2 way street if you get my drift. Ladies we have to communicate!

One thing that I have learned is that you have to be comfortable talking to your partner about sex. When we lay down at night and it’s time to get it poppin’ we both have the same agenda, to please and to cum! (If pleasing is not on his agenda RUN!)So now that that’s established we have to know what the other one needs to cum and what we need to do to please!

Submission can be fun, wild & spicy. Exactly what a couple needs in their relationship to keep the lot lizards away and for it to remain healthy! Once you know your partner and your partner knows you, LET THE GAMES BEGIN! Are you willing to submit sexually?